Continue atleast with the same ones. In the beginning, your baby will enjoy the melody and as he/she grows he will join in with the actions.  It is good to reinforce the songs and nursery rhymes with pictures. By just over 2 years they will show definate interest in the books and sound some of the words. All of this is great for reading and language development.

As your baby grows and begins to manipulate puzzles, you can develop their logical skill while repeating the bedtime stories. There are so many puzzles out there, you might as well choose one that best suites your personal experiences like nursery rhymes or bedtime stories. You can build the puzzle and talk about the story by asking questions. You can even try to make strange events happening making the story funny and eliciting your child to use their imagination.

But do by all means, keep children interested in books – they are the basis of word builidng and hearing the melodies sentences make. It will create a good base to  help them throughout Preschool and first yaers of school. Start from the very beginning I always say!

I started the process of deduction (as one would when concerning puzzles), you have the beginners puzzle that are in the shapes of cubes.
Then there are the first jigsaws made of 3 pieces. These usually attract the attention of 2+ year olds.
The next level are 9 and 12 pieces – these fill in the age group up to 3.
But then I had to stop myself, because puzzles are the same as learning a language or learning to write, you need to practice building them. By repeating the process over and over again, we become more confident and quicker to solve problems. If a child is introduced to puzzles but then does not have many opportunities to play with them, then he will not be able to move onto the next level as quickly as another child would do.
Anyhow, if we continue to think that the toddler in question does practice building the jigsaw enough times then by the age of 4 he/she should manage a 40 piece puzzle with ease.

And here I stop again because the next number of pieces in a jigsaw is 100. This is a large jump for such a young person.  When searching the Internet there are only a few 60 piece puzzles out there.  The question is “Where are the inbetweeners?”.  Do we have to wait until our children are old enough to have the patience and concentration to tackle a 100 piece jigsaw or do we ask the designers to create more puzzles for 4-6 year olds?

As a supplier of toys – I will look into it but don’t wait around!  I am not sure I will manage to get the processes in motion quick enough for our young ones not to out grow the 60 piece ones.

I tried the other option of buying a wooden book that have the pictures painted on the pages. The wooden book is quick and easy to clean. Its great for teething and because the pictures are not stuck on – they don’t peel off!  The values of the toy stays the same throughout its life.

Think about it. At this precious age of between 18 months and 2 and a half years old, toddlers do not have many words that they can pronounce properly and when they say such a simple, short word: “no” it has such a profound effect on the person that leads their lives: the parent. For example, you are feeding the same lunch meal for the 4th time in a row.  You are already feeling guilty of your lack of inspiration or energy to give something new. Your toddler is tired of this and says “no”. You, for obvious reasons, say “Oh sorry sunshine – are you bored of this? Oh Okay I understand I will make something new”.  Your toddler has said something short, sweet and easy to say and you have answered with a whole new sentence and doing something completely new for him to eat. Wow! So many new things are happening.

Toddler saying no by wagging finger

This doesn’t mean that you are doing something wrong.  If you decide not to react and continue with the lunch you might still get your way and make him eat the old lunch through perseverance.  However, if he is actually bored of the meal you might not get the entire meal consumed anyway.  So there is this fine line of knowing that you should enforce your better judgement but also common sense that he/she is also human and can have a choice. In other words, it might be best if you just take a little caution how quickly you react to a “no” answer – just so that he/she doesn’t think you are so easy to change your mind towards his/hers.

These are powerful, new words for children but not so great for new parents and not so new parents. We all wonder how we might get around this “why” question or “no” answer. Well, to be truthful, its not that easy.  We (parents) will have to bring out or polish our skills of debates or discussions in order to get the result we need.

The way we get to the end result might be on how we decide to approach the topic at hand…for me there is always one of 3 ways for the “why” question: 

1. We must remember, children of this age are new at asking questions and being able to disapprove.  We as parents do not have to answer or react with great complicated sentences. Children of this age will not be able to store all the information you give.  Simple sentences are best.  For example -” how are babies born?” a possible answer can be “they grow in your tummy and when they are ready they pop out of mummy’s tummy”. You will surprised how many say “Oh – Okay”.

If your child asks you “why” and you give the full explanation, they will not be able to absorb all the information you provide or even to relate to it all.  However, if you wish to squash all future “why” questions this might be the best approach. But I don’t think is your aim. You would like your child’s brain to grow and understand the world around them. 

2. Possibly ask what your child thinks. Why do you they think it happens or looks like that. For example, “why do fish have fins?”.  The answer may not be 100% correct but encourage their opinions and maybe suggest what you may think but never say they are incorrect. For example if they say “its where they have extra bones”, you could answer “well yes, fins can be hard but when they move the fins it helps them move in the water”.

3. (this one is great if you don’t know the answer yourself) Go and find the answer together! Google is great for plugging in the question and it comes out with wikipedia or other related links that you can find.  For the younger, not so patient but very curious ones, you can enter a phrase into Google, and select Images.  Google will show you all the images that have been tagged with your word/phrase.  Here you can talk about the topic. It might not answer the question that was asked to the end but that doesn’t matter because you have answered many other questions by just talking about it.

Please bear in mind, the “why” question are great insights to what or how your kids are thinking. Sometimes it even answers your own ”why” questions. Why they are not eating (too cold or too sweet).  When you ask what they think, you may receive an answer you thought would never be logical but for an innocent mind there are no boundaries.  It is beautiful to see a world through their eyes with a different angle or logic to a topic or an idea.

There are heaps and heaps of puzzles out there. Many companies only sell puzzles and do well but how do you know which one is a good buy or which is the best for my child?

Firstly, puzzles are great for the imagination, creativity and logic.  They also create a medium for conversation and language building.   Doing simple tasks correctly at an early age gives the child success. Putting a few pieces together will bring confidence in their own abilities. There are different types of puzzles depending on your child’s age.

The very first type is cubes with pictures on them.  Here the toddler learns that a picture can be made by putting pieces together. Cubes make it easy to create logic and make the first type of understanding about puzzles. The wooden cubes are simple and involve one type of thought process: make a picture. The pictures should perhaps be what the toddler is learning to sound or speak . Nothing too complicated. Pictures of farmyard animals is usually best.

The next step is to put one, two or three pieces together that resemble actual puzzles pieces. This adds another dimension to puzzle building: make a picture and to make the pieces fit.   Here again, keep to simple pictures and ones that your toddler can recognise.

After this you need to build up to more and more piece puzzles. All the time he/she will need your guidance:  How to put them together? Why did you think this piece goes with that piece? What is in the picture and then to talk about the pictures.  Encourage your child to talk about what he/she is thinking while you watch or interact. This will build self esteem and one-to-one time with your child.  Children love it when their parents are praising them and helping them with activities. It will encourage him/her to do more and say more and help you create experiences together.  Here are 3 great puzzles that have pieces just the right size to put the pictures together but has enough to challenge your child. These are called “Beneath our city / country / seaside” and are all available at www.GreenOwlToys.co.uk.  It also has a few things that are easy for parents to talk about but will open your child’s eyes to the world around us.

All children start out with their own language called: baby language and do not say proper words. How to change all those lovely sounds into something that you can understand is not that easy.

Here are a few ways that you can help him/her to hear the sounds so that they can interpret them into words:

• have one-to-one time – take turns listening and responding to one another.
• reinforce eye contact when you have some one-to-one time.
• repetition – research shows: the repetition of words and phrases helps reinforce the neural pathways in their brains that link sound into speech. Repetition accelerates language development.
• talk to your child what are you doing. Especially when changing nappies, getting dressed or bathing. (Here you are practicing body parts.)
• sing nursery rhymes – this will improve their vocabulary and creativity
• try not to correct his/her words. If your child says a word which is almost the full word or does not say the syllables in the correct order - do not correct it. Praise instead. The more practice he/she gets with the beginning of the word the quicker the complete word will be said.
• Once you have established a word/sound (like “moo” for a cow) start to reinforce that a “cow” makes the moo sound. This shows that words are related to one another.

Research shows that once your child reaches 50 words their vocabulary will explode!  However, this will only be true if you continue to talk to your toddler. The quantity of words addressed directly to children between 1 and 3 makes a difference to her vocabulary and verbal IQ.

A few suggested games which makes it fun for you both:

• Children love to play hide-and-seek games. Take their favourite toy (their cuddly toy or car) and hide it behind something and say ”Where’s bunny? Where’s bunny?” “Oh there is bunny hiding under your leg/behind your ear/behind Mummy’s head/behind the chair”.    Let your child hide the bunny too. If you ask “Where’s bunny?” they will most probably show you and eventually say where!
• Read story books that are mostly pictures of animals. Children love the noises the animals make and often repeat them. (this also improves concentration)
• Make believe shopping games. Take fruit and vegetables (toy or real) and a shopping bag. Pretend to go shopping a put things in the bag, naming each item as you go. Go to the till and take them out again and beep them through (as if you are at the supermarket) and again naming them as you take them out of the bag.
• Have a play farm.  You can create many scenario’s with the farmer and his animals. Either a farm where you paint yourself (boosts creativity) or one done for you!  Practice the names and sounds of animals.